Welcome to Sexy Time
This site contains practical resources for consenting adults in committed relationships who want to think more clearly, honestly, and safely about intimacy, connection, and sexual wellbeing.
The material here is designed to be:
- Respectful
- Non-performative
- Grounded in consent and agency
- Usable in real relationships, not just ideal ones
Nothing on this site is intended as instruction, pressure, or expectation.
All resources are optional, adaptable, and meant to support thoughtful discussion between partners.
What you'll find here
- Low pressure naughty menu is a resource for couples struggling with chronic pain.
How These Resources Are Intended To Be Used
- By adults who have explicitly agreed to engage with each other sexually
- Within ongoing, committed relationships
- As conversation starters, not contracts
- As menus of possibility, not obligations
Reading something does not imply agreement.
Trying something once does not imply repetition.
Scope and Boundaries
This site does not:
- Promote coercion, manipulation, or obligation
- Replace medical, psychological, or legal advice
- Provide content intended for casual or non-consensual contexts
If a resource does not feel safe, appropriate, or relevant, it can simply be ignored.
Why This Exists
Many couples encounter long stretches where intimacy becomes complicated rather than spontaneous.
Pain, stress, health changes, aging, and life events all affect how desire shows up.
Having language and structure can reduce anxiety and make connection easier to navigate.
This site exists to provide that structure - quietly, practically, and without judgement.